Decided to Get Married? 5 Things Men Should Think About

Decided to Get Married? 5 Things Men Should Think About

For most men deciding that we’re ready for marriage is never an easy task. Here are 5 things to think about when you’re getting ready for marriage. Preparing yourself for a relationship is part of becoming a man.

Have you settled down in your career

While you’re pursuing a career and need to work long hours and travel hectically, you are generally reluctant to think about settling down. Because marriage means finding time to build bonds with your wife. One can’t do that without some stability in a career. So ask yourself if you have a stable career before looking out for a life partner.

Are you ready to provide for the family

From early times, man has been the provider. Of course, these days women have become an equal partner supporting the family in everything, including financially. Yet, as a man, you need to be confident that you can manage a family soon. And be willing to start this journey. If your finances are perfect, they you’re on a good wicket. Are you financially independent?

Are you ready to share your future

Marriage is a lifelong commitment. It’s a fulfilling journey from a man to husband to dad and more. The prime years of your life will be with her, planning and raising a family, buying a new home and growing old together. Your future will be together. If you’re ready, then start you search right away.

Are you willing to give some space

As a bachelor you had all your time for yourself. But as you prepare to find a partner for life, you must be willing to share some of your time and space. In return you’ll get happiness and joy never experienced before. Your companion will challenge you to become a better person and bring the best out of you. All you need to do is share your time make your companion your priority in life. Are you ready for this?

Marriage means some responsibilities

This is not to scare men, but they must be aware of the realities. That someone will be waiting for them at home, that they need to share time with their life partner, there are relatives to meet, parties to attend, festivals you can’t ignore and household chores to support. Be aware of these and you’ll have a fulfilling journey together.

Every man needs to judge if he is ready before getting married. Here is how you can assess that.


Before a man gets married, he must ensure that he is not only ready for the commitment but also the responsibility of bearing a family. This video talks about some of the aspects you must consider.

About the Author

Lakshmi Santhosh

Lakshmi is a greatly followed and acclaimed content creator known for answering the most burning questions on life and relationships. Tons of couples are thankful to her for helping them address and overcome the issues in their marriage. Her contribution to HappyMarriages is a continuation of her wonderful work.

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8 years ago

hii i m rita good job matrimony